Originally by: Tobias Xiaosen

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...and it has nothing to do with her not liking eve

Ok, to understand my dilema, I need to give some 'back ground' info first.

Me and my gf have been together for about a year and a half now. She is a tomboy/geek so she gets along really well with guys. So much so in fact that she has always had trouble making friends with other girls, and the majority of her friends are guys.

This is just something I have to stomach, and if I wasn't able to handle that fact we wouldn't have lasted this long.

Anyway, it just so happens that when we headed off to university, we both decided on universities on the opposite sides of the country. Since we live in Canada, that means over 4000 km apart. We decided to stick it out, and we've been able to stay together even though we have not been able to see each other in person for months on end (thankfully I saw her at Christmas)

Problem is this: She has, evitably, made more guy friends than girl friends, which I expected. It's just that lately, she has been posting, as her profile pic on facebook, only pictures of her with other guys i've never met. Not just them together in the picture either. Every one of them there is a different guy, where the two of them are either hugging each other or holding each other really closely.

Now, I've been with her long enough and known her long enough to know that she wouldn't cheat on me. Do not call into question my judgement here, I have my reasons.

However, I am still concerned. I see three options here: One, i'm overreacting, and getting worried about nothing. Two: She's ignorant of what these pictures imply (ie she doesnt want to be with me anymore). Or Three: The least likely option, she is weary of me now and is moving on to other guys.

So what do you guys think? 1,2 or 3? And please, dont just say crap like "ZOMG, she's cheating on you!!1!1!" or "stop whining you cry baby, all women are like that". I really care about her, and I dont want to make assumptions about whats going on, so please, honest answers.

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